10 Things You Didn’t Know About The Male Mind
If you’ve ever wanted to know what goes on inside
the male mind, this is what happens:
1. The male mind isn’t afraid of commitment – It’s their associations with .
A lot of women I meet think that guys are inherently terrified of being with one person. It’s not true. The only reason is because they
associate it with losing their freedom, having sexual excitement, being able to pursue whatever they want.
The great news is, that these feelings are entirely
within a woman’s control. If you appear needy and
desperate to be serious with him, he’ll be terrified
of taking the leap. This is just one reason guys
run from relationships.
If you make him WANT to be with you long-
term and show him that life will only get more fun
when he does, committing to you will only excite
him more.
2. Looks aren’t enough to keep the
male mind attracted.
Men aren’t as shallow as women think.
Though a man might sleep with a woman for her
looks, this by itself will never make him look at
that girl as relationship-worthy.
3. Men are just as emotionally
needy as women
Men like women want a certain amount of
affection from a relationship. If they don’t feel like
they’re getting it, they’ll be just as hurt as any
woman would.
The difference is that men often express their
affection in a more physical way than women.
4. Men are just as nervous about
starting conversations as women
Believe us, men find it just as difficult to go and
start conversations with people they are attracted
to as women do.
You can use this information to your advantage as
a woman.
If starting up conversation yourself isn’t something
you feel comfortable doing at first, your job is to
make it as easy as possible for him to approach
you.
5. Men’s self-esteem is highly
wrapped up in their sexual ability
When men feel sexually rejected, they feel like less
of a man.
Even with men in relationships who feel totally
loved, if they don’t feel that their woman desires
them sexually as much as they desire her, it hurts
their pride in a way women can’t imagine.
6. The male mind isn’t good at
game-playing Men are pretty simple.
Women sometimes give them mixed signals and
think they are “playing the game” when actually
the man often takes it as a sign that she’s not at
all interested and simply gives up.
7. The male mind craves VARIETY
Both in your relationships, dating and the
bedroom, the male mind is turned on by doing
different things.
8. Men are as insecure about
rejection as women
The male ego is highly wrapped up in to how he
perceives his performance with the opposite sex.
This is why it can take some men a while to pluck
up the courage to ask you for a date, even if you
think you’ve made it obvious that you want him to
ask you out.
9. The male mind appreciates
things more when they are earned
This is why men are completely turned off by
desperate women. They feel like anyone else could have been in their place.
What they want to feel like is that they earned their
place in your life.
That they have proved themselves worthy to having the keys to becoming a part of your already
amazing life.
10. The male mind can be
programmed with the right
language.
Men love turning women on. If you want a guy to
change his behaviour in a relationship, instead of
saying “Honey, I would really appreciate it if you
did xxx.” try this instead: “It really turns me on
when guys do xxx”.
This might sound trivial, but it’s amazing how
much hoovering you can get guys to do once they
think it turns you on!
When you get inside the male mind in this way,
you’ll never be confused about why men act the
way they do again.
2. Looks aren’t enough to keep the
male mind attracted.
Men aren’t as shallow as women think.
Though a man might sleep with a woman for her
looks, this by itself will never make him look at
that girl as relationship-worthy.
3. Men are just as emotionally
needy as women
Men like women want a certain amount of
affection from a relationship. If they don’t feel like
they’re getting it, they’ll be just as hurt as any
woman would.
The difference is that men often express their
affection in a more physical way than women.
4. Men are just as nervous about
starting conversations as women
Believe us, men find it just as difficult to go and
start conversations with people they are attracted
to as women do.
You can use this information to your advantage as
a woman.
If starting up conversation yourself isn’t something
you feel comfortable doing at first, your job is to
make it as easy as possible for him to approach
you.
5. Men’s self-esteem is highly
wrapped up in their sexual ability
When men feel sexually rejected, they feel like less
of a man.
Even with men in relationships who feel totally
loved, if they don’t feel that their woman desires
them sexually as much as they desire her, it hurts
their pride in a way women can’t imagine.
6. The male mind isn’t good at
game-playing Men are pretty simple.
Women sometimes give them mixed signals and
think they are “playing the game” when actually
the man often takes it as a sign that she’s not at
all interested and simply gives up.
7. The male mind craves VARIETY
Both in your relationships, dating and the
bedroom, the male mind is turned on by doing
different things.
8. Men are as insecure about
rejection as women
The male ego is highly wrapped up in to how he
perceives his performance with the opposite sex.
This is why it can take some men a while to pluck
up the courage to ask you for a date, even if you
think you’ve made it obvious that you want him to
ask you out.
9. The male mind appreciates
things more when they are earned
This is why men are completely turned off by
desperate women. They feel like anyone else could have been in their place.
What they want to feel like is that they earned their
place in your life.
That they have proved themselves worthy to having the keys to becoming a part of your already
amazing life.
10. The male mind can be
programmed with the right
language.
Men love turning women on. If you want a guy to
change his behaviour in a relationship, instead of
saying “Honey, I would really appreciate it if you
did xxx.” try this instead: “It really turns me on
when guys do xxx”.
This might sound trivial, but it’s amazing how
much hoovering you can get guys to do once they
think it turns you on!
When you get inside the male mind in this way,
you’ll never be confused about why men act the
way they do again.
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